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up. When I found out my parents voted for Trump a third time, my dad wrote me a note that was like, we need to talk. And I said, I'm only willing to talk through a therapist because I'm not going to have this conversation for the third year in a row. This was back in November. I had told them I'm removing myself a little bit from the role of the family. I 'm going to be stepping back, but I'm not giving up. I'm still going to be there. And I still love y'all. And my kids' relationship with you is really important to me, blah , blah, blah. The first thing is, A, they love me. They don't like me. Like they would never choose to hang out with me if I wasn't related to them. I'm not going to go be with people who have to shrink myself in front of them. So since then my dad's barely talked to me, his default is to emotionally neglect. He's made it clear his love is conditional. It's kind of funny to be honest, like how hard he has to try. Like he'll give me like these limp hugs. Yesterday was my birthday. He didn't write anything. Even when my family did a little celebration the other day, he didn't say anything. I'm like, joke's on you, dude. You've been giving me a masterclass in emotional neglect my entire life. I know your love is conditional on me being compliant. Like I've mourned this already. I just cannot believe the behavior of some of these boomer parents. And you know, all it does is reinforce to me that like, I'm breaking the cycle of that bullshit. And then my kids would never be put in that position ever because my love is not conditional. When I found out my parents,