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I have been misgendered three times in the past 24 hours at restaurants. Last night, I was at Benihana with my girlfriend, and the server said, what about you, sir? What would you like to eat? My girlfriend, God bless her heart, steps in, says, actually, that's ma'am. And she looks at my girlfriend and didn't really understand what had happened and said, no, I'm talking to him pointing at me. Our jaws were on the floor, and we decided to leave because it was just a bad vibe after that. And just a few minutes ago, I was at another restaurant for lunch, and they showed me my seat and said, here you go, sir. And I said, I am not a sir. And then I left because I wasn't comfortable anymore. And I went to a new restaurant, and I asked before I sit down, where's the bathroom, please? And they said, oh, it's right this way, sir. And I just left because I wasn't comfortable anymore. If you're a server in the food industry, you don't need to use words like sir or ma'am. There are ways to be respectful without using those words. And if you get it wrong for someone like me, I will probably leave the restaurant. And it puts like a bad vibe on my day when it happens, especially when it happens three times in a row.